A man (28) goes overseas for work and asks his sister (19) to look after his place, including feeding his cats and watering his plants. When he returns home, he discovers that his sister and her boyfriend used his bed for …
I (28M) had to travel overseas for a couple weeks for work related reasons. My sister’s (19F) college is nearby, and she offered to feed my cats and water my plants while I was gone. I said sure thanks, and told her she was welcome to stay there while I was gone, since she lives in a dorm.
Anyway, the day I got home, my sister was there with her boyfriend. That was fine, he’s always seemed like a cool guy, but one thing I noticed was that my sheets were still in my washer. I didn’t think much of it, I just assumed my sister waited to wash them, since she was using my bed while she was there. But she tells me, sorry, my boyfriend and I were “using” the bed last night.
That grossed me out. I don’t think I’m being unreasonable to not want people screwing in my bed. My sister told me to relax, and said I was being a prude American (her boyfriend is from Ireland). She said that we (meaning Americans) stigmatize sex, and that she washed the sheets so it’s fine. I said no it’s not and told her to get out. She isn’t welcome there anymore. Our mother has been reaming me via text, saying I’m overreacting. Am I ?
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