in

Rich Boyfriend Pays More Rent Expects Girlfriend To Do Everything.

Boyfriend contributes more to the rent, the girlfriend has been doing most of the cleaning, and she now feels overwhelmed and under appreciated. The boyfriend, on the other hand, feels like he should not have to do as much housework since he is already contributing more financially.

Source: Reddit

I (24M) work for a very prominent company and get paid a lot better than my girlfriend (23F). We both moved to a different state for my job, and she ended up with a very toxic work environment with a boss who was sexist and homophobic. She hated her job and ended up getting a new one that pays a lot less than her old one, and has asked me to take on the responsibility of paying most of the rent.

Since we have been in this new state, she has done most of the cleaning. I contribute by doing the dishes sometimes and washing the laundry (she folds it). She is the only one who cleans the bathroom, the kitchen, and the only one who sweeps, mops, and vacuums along with other random chores here and there.

It’s been about 8 months since we moved and everything was fine until recently. The other day she asked me to vacuum the living room and I said I didn’t know where the vacuum was. Since then, she keeps bringing up how I need to do more of the housework, but I feel like because I contribute more to the rent she should be responsible for keeping the apartment clean. I also do the dishes sometimes and do stuff she asks me to do.

I’ve done more of the dishes since she brought it up (doing them maybe once a week instead of once every other week). She now leaves cleaning tasks for me to do without telling me about them and then gets upset when they aren’t done. If she just asked me to clean those parts of the apartment then I would. She claims that I should know what needs to get done and just do them myself without making her bring it up first. Eventually she gets frustrated and just cleans by herself.

I’m also tired from working when I get home and I just want to relax or finish my work. She works the same amount of hours as me, but her job is much less demanding than mine so she is less drained by the end of the day. She does pay for our groceries and my gas sometimes as well as other little things here and there.

I don’t think I’m an a**hole for expecting her to contribute with the housework since I contribute more financially. Am I Wrong for letting her do most of the cleaning since I pay for most of the rent?

Here are a few comments on the story where it was originally posted: 


Share this with your friends by clicking below!

“My Life As A Young Widow: Coping With The Loss Of My Husband To Addiction”

Mother Praised For Telling Child’s Daycare Teacher That She Won’t Clean Up.