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I (21f) have had my sister (18f) over for the past 3 days as she was fully renovating her apartment that she got for her 18th three weeks ago and couldn’t stand being there when it was undergoing. It was to last for 6 days & she said that she would be out most of the time for school or with friends.
She doesn’t want to go to our parent’s home as she can’t stand anymore interventions from our father as she was not supposed to move in until school finishes, though played the “I’m 18” card.
I allowed her to stay for this short period and it wouldn’t be inconvenient as we all live less than two miles away from each other. Me and my boyfriend (22m) live together & he adores my sister even though she is, according to him, “a bad influence”.
I have to attend classes most of my days, so I am not here from the morning till afternoon/evening. My boyfriend is doing an internship right now, so he is not always home, but there more than me.
My sister for the majority of her life would always walk out of the shower naked and wouldn’t care about who would see her. One of our bathrooms that she conveniently uses is our bedroom one, where you have to go in our room and walk past it to go to the bathroom.
My boyfriend finishes early on Mondays & my sister comes home earlier than expected. I usually head home as quickly as I can as we want to use this free time together.
Though my sister had other plans. According to my boyfriend she went straight into our shower as soon as she came home (whilst he was lying down on our bed), she was crying loudly in the shower and proceeded to walk out of the shower naked & back in as she “forgot” something three times.
After finding this out, I proceeded to terminate her stay. She called me unreasonable and “an insecure freak”. My parents put me at fault as well for making her “breakdown” as she went back to our parent’s house. My boyfriend has informed me that I “overreacted” and he just wanted me to tell her to stop doing that as it was bizarre. Am I Overreacting?
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