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My husband and I were separated for 3 years and in that time, I realised that some of my so-called friends were really just his friends all along. Some of them treated me pretty badly and like I was suddenly less than them because I was no longer with my husband.
Earlier this year, before we started reconciling, my husband and his friends planned a trip to Switzerland. My husband asked me if I wanted to come since they were staying in his family’s cabin.
I asked him who was going and when he told me, I said I wouldn’t go if 4 of his friends were going because of how they treated me when they thought we were going to get divorced. He was unhappy about it but he agreed I could uninvite them if it meant I would go on the trip.
Obviously, the friends who’ve been uninvited are upset and they’ve been calling me names for making my husband uninvite them. The trip is at the end of next month so they’re trying to get him (and the rest of the group) to re-invite them but it hasn’t worked because of me.
Am I A Jerk? What are your opinions?
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