Am I Wrong Telling My Fiance That He Ruined Vacation When He Decided To Take The Kids.

A vacation allows you to rejuvenate and revitalise your body and mind. In this story a girlfriend wanted to spend some wonderful time with her boyfriend but due to certain circumstances he had to take care of his kids. Read the story and how would you deal with such a situation.

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My fiance (41) is divorced, he shares custody of his 11yo & 7yo with his ex wife.

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We’ve planned a vacation to a resort and I took care of all reservations and payment but first I had to make absolutely sure he was free on that date (3 days vacation). He gave me the Ok to go ahead and proceed with booking.

2 days before the vacation, his ex called him asking if he’d have the kids after she got into an accident and broke her leg. He took them immediately for the weekend. As soon as I saw them I lost my temper with him. He said it was okay and that he’d either take them with us or postpone. I had a huge argument with him and he said that I was ruining the vacation by this reaction but I told him that he ruined the vacation the minute he took the kids off his ex. I ended up staying with my friend after that. He’s upset with my reaction saying I’m judging him by his circumstance and making him feel bad for wanting to make sure his kids were taken care of. Am I Wrong ? What Should I Do ?

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