Losing a child at a very young age is an unbearable pain. But what is worse is when your partner is not by your side or doesn’t even care about it. Here is a girl who is in a dilemma about her ex who has been constantly warning people about her. Read the story and help her decide what should be done. (This story was sent to us by Catalina).
Source: Reddit
When I was 19, I had an unexpected pregnancy. My ex didn’t want to keep the baby, but I did and we stayed together anyway. She was born with a birth defect and died at two days old.
Because I knew my ex never wanted her, I definitely blamed him (which was wrong). I was upset he didn’t care like I did. I ended up cheating with a guy at a support group whose young child also died. I take full responsibility. We broke up, and I took a big break from relationships and pursued personal therapy.
My ex is married now, yet every relationship I’ve been in since (three, including my fiance), he’s messaged the guy warning him that I’m a cheater and the second time even messaged the guy’s parents. Both the relationships ended shortly after, and now he’s contacted my fiance, who I actually told ahead of time and understands.
I found out the reason why he’s been able to find out about all my relationships is because he follows a ton of my family members on Facebook (I don’t have it). Do I tell everyone to block him? I tried to talk to him about it and he says if I don’t tell them I’m lying by omission…but it was ten years ago. He says that it says something about my character that can’t be fixed with time. I went to therapy! It was horrible, horrible circumstances and I honestly don’t think I’m a bad person.
I don’t know if it would be wrong to take this to his wife. I’m afraid he’s going to tell my fiance’s parents or my future kids. I just want him to stop. So I finally told his wife everything.
He and his wife got into a big fight. She’s creeped out by the obsession and worried he hasn’t gotten over me. The age gap at the time bothered her especially because there’s an age gap between the two of them and she thought he was making an “exception” for her. He sent my boyfriend a very ominous “you will regret this” message and we’re thinking of involving the police.
What would you do?
