Every relation has highs and lows. If you are not in a happy marriage, getting divorced and moving on is what is best for everyone. Even so, respect is essential for the sake of mankind. Read the article to find out what transpired between this couple as a result of her ex and what you would do in such a circumstance.
Source: Reddit
So my fiancé is divorced with two toddlers. Her ex-husband gets visitation every other weekend supervised by her family or a sheriff. 3 judges found and supported that he was abusive physically and mentally. Also he’s a total ass.
Well my fiancé has 2 daughters and is currently pregnant with our daughter. Her ex husband messaged her “hey I found a box of your baby clothes, do you want them for a new baby girl?”
My fiancé immediately said no, I figured because it was coming from him and she didn’t want to upset me. I tried to tell her “no, please accept your baby stuff. I know how sentimental you are.” She just told me “it’s not a big deal just leave it.”
Well on the night she was due to pick up the girls from the ex, she was scheduled to work. So therefore I would have to pick them up. I texted the ex husband “hey, I’m getting the girls and I’ll also pick up my fiancé’s baby clothing.” He happily agreed.
I got the girls and the box, wrapped it all pretty and presented it to my fiancé.
She opened the box and low and behold, her baby clothing. She was tearing up, with happy tears. Until she dug deeper.
Ex husband cut up all her baby clothing and added a few choice notes. The notes stated “hope you miscarry you stupid bi**h” and “f**k you”.
She threw down the clothing and just walked out. I went in the bedroom and told her “I’m sorry I was just trying to help”
She said she understood but is upset because she has told me multiple times that her ex is a “F**king psychopath” and that I should just listen to her.
It’s not that I don’t believe her, I do. The guy sucks. I just really didn’t think that he would go that far to upset her.
What should I do? Am I wrong?
