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My husband (35) is disabled, he’s in a wheelchair and is home 24/7. Because he needs me around to assist him, I’d have him and his chair nearby while I do laundry or cook or clean. He’s with me most of the time except for when I go to the bathroom, but even then he’d complain about me being away for so long. I don’t even go shopping, everything gets delivered to our home.
I haven’t seen my girlfriends for a while and have arranged to start having girl night outs at my place since I can’t be away from home, especially at night. I asked my husband for some privacy when my friends came and he took it badly, took it as in I was annoyed and bothered by him but I assured him it wasn’t like that. He said if it’s true then I’d let him sit with us during girls night in. I absolutely refused and tried explaining that my friends and I need privacy and this is the only time we spend together. I also explained that having him sit with us would ruin the purpose of girls’ night in. He threw a hissy fit and called me selfish and rude for refusing. He started giving me the cold shoulder saying until I agree to include him, he will not be speaking to me.
Am I Wrong for choosing “this hill” to die on according to him?
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