Going for a holiday spending quality time with the one you love is what this man in the story wanted. Read the story to know what happened between the couple and let us know what are your thoughts on this.
I M33 have been with Natalie f32 for 2 years. We’re getting married soon and she shares custody of her 10 yr.o son with her ex husband. Ever Since her ex husband got sick, Natalie kept bringing her son over more often. Sometimes her mom would take him due to work etc.
We’ve been having issues because of that because Natalie has to bring my stepson with us whenever we go. We started going out less and less. Since it’s been a month since we’ve gone out and since her ex has gotten better, I’ve arranged for a trip to the beach for the weekend, it’s supposed to be a couple’s getaway. She was excited for it and prepared for everything.
The night before the trip she comes up to me and says “hey, Tom is sick again and he asked if I could take Taylor to spend the weekend with us”. I was gobsmacked. I asked what she told him and she said she agreed. She then proceeded to tell me that she’d like to take Taylor with us to the beach. I got upset and told her to not bother because the trip was officially cancelled. She looked at me shocked but I told her she shouldn’t act shocked and surprised after she successfully ruined yet another opportunity for us to have quality, alone time together. She went on about how she couldn’t believe that I expected her to ditch her son since her mom was busy as well and getting a babysitter wasn’t on the table, I just shrugged and told her it was done then I walked out.
I went with the guys instead and she has been upset with me about it saying I could’ve just agreed to let my stepson Tylor come with us and we would’ve at least had some family time together while Tom gets better. She said I was the one who screwed up. Really? What are your opinions? Please don’t be afraid to criticize. Thank you for your time in advance.
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