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I had a fight with my mum yesterday. Not a serious one in my opinion, I am very confused why she’s still mad at me about it. She doesn’t want to talk so I’m asking for help. Maybe I did something wrong without realising it. I am a 19 year old female who is still living with my parents. She brought me a bra yesterday (I didn’t ask for it, but accepted it due to the kindness). I tried it on and it fit and everything was fine.
My mum got mad at me because I didn’t want to show her how the bra looks on me. I understand that she cares but I’m an adult who is not comfortable with showing my body (which I told her), but she kept screaming and being pushy. I told her no and that I am an adult that knows if a bra fits or not. I was uncomfortable and I told her to let me be an adult and make my own decisions. I didn’t talk to her the rest of the day, mostly due to me being stuck in my room doing assignments for university. It’s the next day and It’s dinner, I wanted to make myself garlic sauce the way my mum makes it so I asked her how to make it. Let’s just say she is still angry at me. She told me “since you’re such an adult, figure it out yourself.” I don’t see how this is a huge issue. Am I an AH for not showing how the bra looks on me? I find this funny how this whole argument is about a bra.
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