Every marriage has its own beauty and flaws. A husband and wife should love, care, respect, and communicate with each other. However, read this story about the couple’s physical intimacy and let us know what you would do in the wife’s place.
Source: Reddit
I’ve been married to my husband for 10 years. We have two young kids together. We have a good marriage, or so I thought. We make time for ourselves, go on date nights frequently, we have sex at least 4-5 nights a week, but recently (since about last summer or so) it hasn’t been enough for him and he wants to have sex multiple times a day, I try to keep up as much as possible but sometimes it’s downright not possible (sex at 7:20 when our sons alarm goes off at 7:30, sex while our one son is taking a bath and the other is watching tv, etc), and apparently there have been a few times he’s tried to wake me up in the middle of the night for sex and I haven’t woken up.
Last night he suggested opening up our marriage….but just for him. He said his sex drive is so much higher than mine it makes sense. I asked what if I wanted to have sex with other people? And he said that since I don’t have as high of a drive as him he can meet all my needs but I can’t meet his, so for him it’s getting a need met but if I did it it would just be out if spite. He also said that he knows he won’t catch feelings for anyone and it would be purely physical, and he knows I wouldn’t really ever enjoy sex if there are no feelings involved.
He’s making it out like I’m being selfish if I don’t let him do this. I keep asking if he already has someone in mind he wants to do this with and he’s not answering me. He says it doesn’t matter until I agree to it anyway. Do any other husbands do this?
What would you do in her situation? Any advice. Here are a few comments on the story where it was originally posted:
